Take a small square of paper and write on it the name of the annoying would-be lover. Use black ink for this. Then light a white candle and burn the piece of paper in its flame while thinking of the person running away from you. Catch the ashes in something (burning the paper over an ashtray is a good idea) and carry them out to your back porch or backyard. There you must place the ashes on the upturned palm of your right hand and hold it up saying:
Winds of the North, South, East and West,
Carry these affections to where they’ll be best.
Let his/her heart be open and free,
And let his/her mind be away from me.
Then blow on the ashes so that they scatter to the winds. It is best to do this spell on a Saturday, during the Waning Moon, and when the winds blow strong.